people come and people go. it's ironic hoping and expecting someone to be around for so long (because at that time, you think you guys get along so well and are so alike), and then all of a sudden, you've lost touch with that person within an instant, mentally & physically. i think that's one of the most important things we need to learn in life- acceptance. some of us always get what we want and have it until we don't want it anymore. with others, trial and error takes place. they simply see if it works, and if it doesn't, then they accept it and move on with their lives. of course, it's very hard to say goodbye whether or not we were given a chance to do so. it's even harder not having any type of closure, because it gnaws at you. you question yourself what the hell you did, or what the hell that person did in order for them to stray away from you in such a short time--- and those questions are never answered.
acceptance has become a huge part of my life THROUGHOUT my life. i think that's why i laugh so much because depressing over things that don't turn out the way i want it is just stupid. live and learn, baby. live and learn.
